I’ve been dressing from a capsule wardrobe since February. It is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made with my clothes. If you are on the fence about making your own capsule wardrobe, I highly recommend trying it! Although I was hesitant about trying it at first, I now know that it makes life easier in so many ways. Today I want to share some of the important lessons I’ve learned from dressing with a capsule wardrobe. And share the positive impact creating a capsule wardrobe has had on my life.
1. 40 items are more than enough
When I planned my first capsule wardrobe, I decided to aim for a flexible limit of 40 items, including only tops and bottoms. At the time, I thought 40 items seemed like so few things. I ended up with 36 pieces in my first capsule wardrobe. But after living with it, I realized even with a smaller wardrobe, I still rarely wore some of the pieces.
When I made my second capsule wardrobe, I knew I could easily include fewer items. I stuck with the flexible 40 item limit, but this time included tops, bottoms, shoes and outer wear in that limit. Even including these extra items, I ended up only choosing 36 pieces again.
Even with fewer items, I still have plenty of options to wear. Although 36 items may not seem like a lot of clothes, I am realizing it is easy to create a complete wardrobe with a small, carefully curated selection of clothes. We really don’t need as many clothes as we think we do, which brings me to my next point.
2. You probably are already dressing from a capsule wardrobe
Most people are already dressing from a capsule wardrobe of sorts, but just don’t realize it. I have heard, and definitely agree this applied to me, most people wear 20% of their clothes 80% of the time. This means you wear the same small selection of the clothes you own for the vast majority of the time.
We tend to have our favourites and our “go to” items that we wear often, and the rest of our clothes are worn less frequently, or sometimes rarely ever.
Essentially most people are already dressing from a capsule wardrobe, it’s simply hidden amongst clothes they really don’t love or wear.
This idea really hit me when I made my first capsule. When I sorted all my clothes initially, I put all my favourite items in a pile to make my capsule wardrobe from. I wasn’t thinking about it too hard or planning carefully. I just quickly sorted and gathered the clothes I love and wear often. After I was done sorting, I counted the pile and was shocked to find I only had 42 items in the pile.
Knowing I was already dressing from a small number of items the majority of the time eased my fears about creating a capsule wardrobe. I didn’t actually need the extra clothes in my closet. They were just a mental security blanket that made me feel like I had options, but I wasn’t wearing them anyways. So why allow them to take up my space and my time?
3. Fewer clothes makes getting dressed easier
One of the first things I noticed about dressing from a capsule wardrobe is how much easier deciding what to wear is. Because I only keep things in my wardrobe that I love to wear, and look and feel good in, deciding what to wear each day is so much quicker and simpler.
You may have heard the term “decision fatigue”. Basically, it means that our decision-making ability deteriorates throughout the day as we become mentally exhausted from all the decisions, large and small, we make during the day.
When you can start your day without stressing, or even giving much thought at all, about what you’re going to wear, you start your day without wasting your decision-making ability on what you’ll wear. Less time and energy spent deciding what to wear leads to less decision fatigue. You can save your decision-making ability for the more important decisions you need to make throughout your day.
4. A capsule wardrobe saves time and money
When you are making an intentional choice to live with a small, carefully chosen selection of clothing, you shop for clothes less frequently. You are more selective about any clothes you buy, only buying items you absolutely love and actually need in your wardrobe.
Often once you create your capsule, you have little need to shop at all while you’re dressing from it, because you are committed to dressing with fewer items and content with doing so.
You save time and money by shopping less and being more intentional about what you buy.
A capsule wardrobe also saves time because deciding what to wear is so much easier. You don’t have to weed through clothes you don’t love or don’t fit to find something to wear. You don’t waste time in the mornings trying on multiple outfits trying to find something that looks and feels great.
5. My closet has breathing room
One of the more unexpected benefits of a capsule wardrobe is how great my closet looks and feels! It is so organized and peaceful, and super easy to keep that way. Nothing is crammed or stuffed in. I can see exactly what I have and nothing gets lost in the back or forgotten about.
Looking at my clothes now gives me such a positive feeling. Each item is something I love that I look and feel good in. There aren’t clothes that make me feel guilty for not wearing and wasting money on. Or clothes that don’t fit and make me feel bad. My closet makes me feel good because I love everything in it.
It’s like a breath of fresh air. Sometimes I go in to my closet just to gaze lovingly at all the empty space! It’s hard to describe what a difference it makes in my life.
I didn’t realize that a full closet was making me feel overwhelmed or stressed, until it wasn’t that way anymore. It feels so freeing and peaceful to have room to breath in my closet.
I even did a mini makeover on my closet to accentuate and enjoy all the empty space I have now. Who would’ve thought I’d ever have the space or inclination to decorate my closet! I’ll share my mini makeover soon!
6. I’ve learned more about my personal style and preferences
Keeping fewer items in your wardrobe forces you to clarify your personal style. When you have a small wardrobe, everything in it must be something you love to wear and feel great in. You don’t have room in your wardrobe to keep things you only wear occasionally or don’t really love.
Your style and clothing preferences become clear very quickly. It’s easy to see what items aren’t worn often and which items you always reach for. Ideally, your capsule wardrobe should only include items you absolutely love and would be happy to wear everyday. However, it does take some time to get there. But having a smaller wardrobe makes it a lot easier to see these patterns.
Figuring out your personal style and preferences takes some time. And it can change and evolve during different stages of your life. Be realistic about your lifestyle right now and what types of clothes you like and/or need to wear the majority of the time. Then build your capsule around your current lifestyle.
Here are some examples of what I’ve learned dressing with fewer clothes:
- In my first capsule wardrobe I initially included mostly nicer, casual clothes (think knit cardigans and sweaters) and only one hoodie. It quickly became clear that I needed more than one hoodie because I like to wear cozy and warm sweaters a lot during the winter, especially while I’m at home hanging out with the kids. I made some tweaks to my wardrobe to include one or two more comfortable sweaters to fill the gap.
- I’ve learned I’m a creature of habit. I own several of the same styles of tops in different colors. I realized finding something I like is more important to me than variety. This might not work for everyone, but it works for me. Figure out your own personal preferences and work with them, not against them.
- I realized I don’t like mixing and matching my clothes in new combinations. It actually stresses me out. I like to figure out the combinations that work, then stick with those. Boring? Maybe. But it takes the stress out of deciding what to wear for me and that’s one of the big reasons to make a capsule wardrobe in the first place.
Having a small, carefully selected wardrobe allows me to clarify and develop my personal style that works for my lifestyle. I feel confident in my clothes because my wardrobe is made up of my favourite things that I look and feel good in.
7. Nobody else pays much attention to what you’re wearing
I’ve realized nobody really notices or cares what you wear or how many clothes you have. People really don’t pay that close of attention to what other people are wearing. Let this go. Most people couldn’t even recall what someone else wore yesterday, let alone keep tabs on what they wear regularly.
I like to remind myself of this quote:
“What other people think about me is none of my business.” – Wayne Dyer
This applies to life in general, but also if you’re worrying about what people think of your wardrobe.
Besides, even if someone does notice what you’re wearing, does it matter? Do your clothes have anything to do with the kind of person you are? No! Your actions and words show the world what kind of person you are. Your clothes have nothing to do with it!
8. Letting go of clothes you don’t love becomes easier
I find it easier to identify and let go of clothes I don’t really love after I’ve put them away for a little while. I stored anything not in my current capsule in our spare bedroom closet. When I revisited these clothes to put together my spring capsule wardrobe, I realized some time and space away from my clothes makes it easier to decide what I truly love and what is just ok.
A good test to see if I actually love something, is when I decide if I want it in my capsule or not. I know anything I include in my capsule will need to be something I want to wear frequently. I ask myself if I would be excited to wear an item at least once a week. Even though I don’t actually end up wearing most things that frequently, that’s the test I use. If I wouldn’t want to wear it that frequently, it doesn’t belong in my capsule and probably doesn’t belong in my wardrobe at all.
Ultimately, I only want to own clothes I love and feel excited to wear often. Letting go of clothes that don’t meet this standard is easier with a capsule wardrobe. Either I notice I’m not loving or wearing something in my capsule, because there are fewer clothes for it to get lost in. Or I have higher standards about what to include in my capsule in the first place.
9. A capsule wardrobe makes life better!
A capsule wardrobe isn’t about sacrifice, suffering or deprivation. It’s about making your life easier, less stressful and better overall! It lets you spend less time and energy thinking about and caring for your clothes. Giving you more time and energy for more important things in your life!
I don’t choose to live with fewer clothes to make life harder. I choose to live with less to make my life better!