When you are simplifying and choosing to live with less, it’s not really about what you’re getting rid of. The best part about simplifying your life is what you gain by letting go and choosing to live with less.
When you are willing to let go of the clutter, the distractions, the excess and the busyness, you stand to gain so much more: more time, more space, more freedom and ultimately more peace.
Shift your focus to what you’ll gain, not what you’re getting rid of
While you’re in the process of decluttering and simplifying, so much of the focus is on what you’re getting rid of.
You recognize your life is too full. There is too much stuff, too much clutter, too many commitments, too many distractions. And you’re taking action to do something about it.
You start getting rid of the clutter, the excess and the distractions. Even reducing your busyness by saying no to commitments that aren’t adding value to your life.
In this stage of the process, so much of your focus is on what you’re getting rid of. It’s easy to forget that the whole point of simplifying and choosing to live with less is about what you’re making room for more of.
What you gain when you live with less is more important than what you’re letting go of. The point of decluttering isn’t to have empty rooms.
Instead, you declutter your home and your life to give you the time, space and freedom to focus on what matters most to you. It’s about choosing to have less stuff, so you can have more life.

4 Things You Gain When You Live with Less
Today I want to share 4 things you can gain when you choose to simplify and live with less.
These 4 things are what make the simplifying journey worth it. They are what makes it worth the time and effort to remove the clutter and the distractions.
While you’re decluttering and simplifying, instead of focusing on what you’re getting rid of, letting go or giving up, keep your focus on what you’re gaining. It becomes so much easier to let go of the clutter and distractions when you focus on what you’ll gain by letting go.
Here are 4 awesome things you’ll gain when you live with less:
1. Time
Everything you own takes up some of your time. Some take more time than others, but everything in your home requires some of your time and energy.
First, you have to work to earn the money to buy something (or even accumulate debt because of it). Once you own it you have to pick it up, put it away, clean it, clean around it, organize it, maintain it, look for it, repair it, take care of it, etc.
The fewer things you own, the less of your time and energy are taken up managing your stuff.
When things add value to your life (because you use them regularly or love them) it’s ok when they take up some of your time and energy. The problem is things that add no value and are not worth the time and energy they require from you.
When you let go of the things that don’t add value to your life, you gain more time and energy to focus on what is most important to you and what you value most.
2. Space
As you get rid of the clutter and the excess from your home, you’ll create space in your home. Rooms will be less crowded and cluttered. Closets and cupboards will have space. You’ll add room to breathe to your home.
Where there was once clutter, you’ll gain space. Space you can use for living and enjoying what you value most, instead of storing clutter.
But beyond creating physical space in your home, you’ll also add space to other areas of your life.
Space in your schedule
You’ll also give yourself the opportunity to create space in your schedule.
Simplifying helps you recognize what activities, commitments and obligations add value to your life, and which just add clutter, distraction and busyness.
As you begin to say no to the things in your schedule that aren’t adding value, you create space in your schedule. Giving you more opportunities to say yes to the activities and commitments you love and add value to your life.
“Learn to say ‘no’ to the good so you can say ‘yes’ to the best.”
~ John C Maxwell
Space in your mind
A cluttered space and schedule can also lead to a cluttered mind.
Clutter, distractions and busyness mean your mind can’t rest, gain clarity or focus as well. Instead, your mind is constantly being pulled in many different directions, distracted and just trying to keep up.
Simplifying your home and your schedule allows you to clear some of the mental clutter and gain clarity. It also reduces your stress levels and gives your mind and body space to rest and recharge, without being bombarded by clutter and distractions.
3. Freedom
Choosing to live with less lets you take control of what fills your time and space.
Rather than allowing excess, clutter and distractions to take up your time and space, you make intentional choices about what fills your time and space. And you gain the freedom to spend your time and energy on what is most important to you.
You gain the freedom to create the life you want, instead of simply trying to keep up with managing all your stuff and obligations.
This could mean working fewer hours when you aren’t buying and spending as much. It could mean living in a smaller home once you get rid of the things you don’t use or love. Or more simply, it could mean having more time and energy for the people and activities you love. All because you spend less time and energy managing the things you own.
4. Peace
Finally, choosing to live with less gives you the potential to create a more peaceful life.
You’re no longer frantically trying to keep up with life and managing all your stuff and commitments. Instead, you can intentionally focus on what is most important to you because you have the time, space and freedom to do so.
And that’s ultimately why simplifying, decluttering and minimalism are so great. You can let go of a cluttered, stressful, frantic and overly busy life, and instead create a calmer, more intentional, more peaceful life.
Decluttering, simplifying and choosing to live with less are about so much more than having a tidy home. Although that’s an awesome benefit as well!
Choosing to live with less is about making room for what you’ll gain when you get rid of the clutter and distractions. And that’s what it’s all about, choosing less stuff so you can have more life!
What have you gained when you’ve made the choice to own less? If you’re still in the process of decluttering and simplifying, what are you most looking forward to having more of when you’re done?

Succor
Sunday 3rd of April 2022
Thank you again Melissa!😊🤗👍
Simple Lionheart Life
Friday 8th of April 2022
You're very welcome! Thanks for reading :)
Succor
Sunday 3rd of April 2022
Yes! Very timely, Timeless Quote by John Maxwell!
Simple Lionheart Life
Friday 8th of April 2022
I agree!
Diane
Monday 30th of April 2018
I'm looking forward to having less so I can know where everything is instead of having to hunt for certain things and having a home for everything. I still have tools in my house that belong out in the shop, but don't have room in the shop because my ex still have LOTS of his stuff in it after not living here for 7 1/2 years...plus my youngest son's belongings are out there and in the house...I have a hard enough time keeping track of my own stuff not to mention other family members belongings.
Simple Lionheart Life
Tuesday 1st of May 2018
Yes, having specifics homes for everything and not losing things or spending time searching for items is such a wonderful perk of owning less. Not being able to find something I'm looking for drives me crazy, but luckily owning less means this doesn't happen very often - and when it does it's usually because my 3-year-old was "helping" ;) Thanks for reading and sharing your experience!
Doreen
Wednesday 14th of March 2018
Melissa I am interested to know if you have finished de-cluttering and DONE WITH IT ALL? or is this an on-going adventure for you in CHOOSING TO LIVE WITH LESS! I call it ADVENTURE as this is what it is to me. My new adventure in to learning to LIVE WITH LESS. I get the impression Melissa that you are in a state of CONTENTMENT NOW. I want Natalie who is struggling with this new experience to view this as an adventure and to get excited about it. This will de-stress us and not allow us to feel so anxious as something WE HAVE TO DO. I feel a great sense of FREEDOM that allows me to make changes for the future that will bring great benefit. Another benefit for those who move home is that they won't be stressed out with the packing up and moving. Things will work more smoothly. 6yrs ago I had to clear out my husband's garage after he died. 30yrs of clutter and things he was going to use. I had to get a dumpster and my son-in-law took the valuables. I then had an empty garage which is now a gym.
Simple Lionheart Life
Wednesday 14th of March 2018
This is a great question, Doreen! (I love that you call it an adventure - that's a great way to describe it!) I think simplifying and minimalism are something you are never finished with - it's more of an ongoing process. In the beginning, it's a lot of work to declutter. But it's not always that intense and that much work. Once you have thoroughly decluttered your home, you get to the point where you are "finished" in the sense that you are living with only the things you use and love and have let go of the clutter. But because our lives are never static, there's always ongoing maintenance that will need to be done to maintain your decluttered, simplified home. I would say that's where I'm at now - in maintenance mode. I still declutter our home at regular intervals, but it's quick and easy to keep up with. It's more a matter of dealing with things that have made their way into our home and dealing with things we no longer need. Because our lives are always changing and evolving, so will the things we keep in our homes. For example, my kids outgrow clothes and toys, our interests may change and we don't need things we used to use, things get worn out, etc. I do feel like our family has reached a place of contentment now, but it still requires maintenance and intention to maintain what is "enough" for our family in this season of life. I hope this answers your question. I think this would be a great topic to address in a future post. It's an important part of the simplifying and minimalism journey!
And I completely agree with you that keeping your focus on the positive results of living with less and the benefits it will bring into your life is a great way to keep from feeling overwhelmed and anxious while decluttering. I think your story of the changes you've made and what you've been able to accomplish is a wonderful example of the benefits of simplifying and embracing minimalism!
Doreen
Monday 12th of March 2018
My latest experience was to order a set of 3 storage trunks. The shopping channel showed how good it looked stacked and the benefits. The product sold out. I ordered this on advanced orders. I then felt guilty. The advanced order was delivery in 4 weeks. I had time to think. How would I use these trunks. Where would I site this? Would I become unhappy in time that it looked like clutter to house my clutter? I had enough time to tease out these thoughts. Then I came to the realization that this is subtle advertising talking us in to needing it. So I then phoned up and cancelled the advanced order. I FEEL SO GOOD ABOUT THIS NOW. No Guilt. Just what can happen in the transition to CHANGING THE HABITS OF A LIFETIME. It is all about living with less and this feels good. A motto for life.
Simple Lionheart Life
Tuesday 13th of March 2018
Wow, good for you Doreen! This is awesome. I love how intentional you are being with your purchases and changing your habits. This is awesome. Thank you for sharing, I'm so happy to hear about your progress!